MoodRider

Friday, December 30, 2005

為邁向26歲加油

返左兩個幾月新工開始發覺懶蟲又出返黎啦,尤其係好唔想做同見到既野已經越積越多。琴日朝頭早返到公司,見新同事一面氣憤的樣子,接過她手中0既小紙條,原來老細叫佢代為照顧房間0既花花草草。其實不止她一個收過這樣的字條,其他的同事也收過,要求包括 :
1) 代他把私人手機電話傳到另一電話中
2) 代他打印所有電話
3) 代淋花
4) 代買Starbuck咖啡
5) 代買某人情婦禮物
等等等等......
其實佢都問過我如果佢買魚既話,我可唔可以幫佢照顧,我就不厭其煩咁同佢講我細個既時候點樣以不同手法0係無意之間殺死無數0既小動物,於是自此之後,佢唔敢再搵我幫手.. haaa!

快將26歲0既心情係點?
1) 開始諗下幾時係結婚0既Upper Bound
2) 開始反思朋友的意義及定義
3) 想有 工作上0既成就
4) 想加倍豐富自己0既內涵同見識
5) 開始為被人話長得後生而開心
6) 開始厭倦一向0既消遣活動
7) 好想多d 去郊外舒展下開始老化0既筋骨
8) 開始對年青一代有所不滿 (代溝)
9) 討厭浮誇同表面化0既人和事,只想事情簡單而豐富

細個既時候成日諗"如果我中五會考會點呢?", "如果讀大學會點呢?", "如果出黎做野會點呢?", "如果拍拖會點呢?" ..... 而家大概都經歷過,接下來既"如果"可能係一d 唔想諗而又避不了的事,又或者係d 自己想操縱結果既事。人大個左真係會好唔同,就正如sophie's world 到講好多romantic 時代既表表者,如果冇用自殺去保留romantic 既思想,0係三十歲既時候通常都巳經成為middle class man,即入係romantic 思想既敵人,可笑吧?

最新買的書 : 108個如果
很好看,有著不同背景,不同文化,不同時代0既人對香港不同範疇0既一d 有根有據0既假設。

為邁向26歲加油

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

It is really something we shouldn't merely think about it.

It's another month I haven't updated here. Though I don't have the time to write, or just don't have the momentum to login and start a record, I keep reading my friends' diary everyday. It's wierd to think about why people would rather share their thoughts and feelings on a rather passive, isolated and virtual area and give up the chance to go into direct conversation and sharing with friends? Are they really that busy? Somehow I feel that people nowadays in this era in this very city are afraid of having attachment to relationships and they are simply 'dehumanised'. Looking around my friends, most of them having computer backgrounds or being highly literate in computer, they don't really like to engage in close relationship with people. While they are surrounded by friends, they prefer keeping silent and start a conversation on icq. Whereas some of my friends (hardly find an example) from the arts group, they are more into human interactions and would prefer switching the computer off and go ahead to meet friends and enjoy the time. For me, I am defintely the former type and I am somehow a serious case finding difficulties to start an attachment to ordinary friends. The meeting I attended yesterday morning, my boss gave us a lecture(he thought he was) saying that we should control email and shouldn't let email overule us. Well, I defintely deny his statement to be applied on me while I think I am quite good a controller of email (because for those I don't want to handle, I can keep it unopen for months!). But somehow, he got his ground in a larger sense that we are almost controlled by the digital media, mostly our computer and the digital channels. What would it be in the future? Is it a crisis for the next generation? Should we relate this phenomenon with the suicide cases happened among the youngster? Should we start to think about a healthy use of digital media and strengthen the human relationship in this society? It is really something we shouldn't merely think about it.

Thanks Ester for bringing me a delightful day every morning. It is a warm feeling to share what you encounter in the day and your writing gives me back the memory of the school days. I think we are both similar kind of simple minded people and I think I am easy to be contented as you! I hope you won't mind my posting the following gif from your blog (from ester's blog) :

When I first read this piece of information, I think about my favourite PC game : 'The Sims'. The latest 3D game featuring life planning and enjoyment has life objectives and fulfilment to achieve. For me, I think I am quite happy as usually I got about half of the list done every day.
But when a person grows older, the standard of each item in the list increases and the conditions to make each item fulfilled would be harder and harder. I am happy that my own list is still easy to achieve !

My schedule :
Decemeber week 2 - Taiwan
week 5 - Macau
January week 2 - Shanghai

Looking forward to the Lunar new year holiday!!